A few weeks ago , a friend was telling me about the two worlds he had read about , a concept that we all know but we fail to understand. My world being mine and your world being yours that can never be understood by either side.Its strange , all i thought was we had "one world" and things were easy and smooth..But the concept of the 2 worlds made me understand life better thanks to him. Its just a cruel simple thing..If you dont think that the person on the recieving understands what you are trying to tell them ,just sort him and put him in a world that does not belong to you.. because the person who you intend to get into a conversation will require you investing a lot more patience ,love, energy and time , thats a lot of investment...may be thats what love is all about.. When you understand that there are a lot of differences and some of them being out of their world but the need and want to understand and let go of the realms of my world and reach his..and when these worlds can never be reached and can never coincide we just give up..Is it better that way I do'nt know, but may be its not worth the wait and investment and hence pushing him or her to a world beyond comprehension is ideal.
I was just reading a book recently called 3's a crowd, the author happened to be one of my clients and I thought I should read the book. The book talks about relationships, love,infidelity and a lot more interesting things..Stories on how, 2 is ideal and when it becomes 3 , its becomes a crowd, either one is left hurt,rejected and neglected....It gets complicated..Love turns to hatred and hurt, more that hatred the feeling of being betrayed for a "better one" injures the victim and leaves a scar with a million questions that most of the time go unanswered..
The stories in the book made me realize how ruthless the world is..How people play with emotions and get away with it...If there is one thing that to I cannot stand is cheating on someone who loves you, cheating someone when you are in a relationship with someone else, am not saying you cannot fall out of love just like you fell into it, am not saying that you can never fall in love with someone else when you are in a relationship, but why cheat? why not just break up and then move on to the next one..A broken heart is not easy to mend and this is a universal fact.no matter how strong or frivolous your relationship is..betrayal brings about anger and hurt and it feels like C***... When people say that things like this makes you stronger they are lying..it does'nt make you stronger , it does not give you the fell lesser pain the next time..it makes you more guarded...You tend to draw a border around you and stop trusting people ..and sometimes become unapproachable and none of these make you a better person..It just makes you critical and judgmental ..or loose faith in love,friendship and start assuming that true emotions exist only in movies and fairy tales...I sometime think that "Happily Ever After" is a myth....
I was just reading a book recently called 3's a crowd, the author happened to be one of my clients and I thought I should read the book. The book talks about relationships, love,infidelity and a lot more interesting things..Stories on how, 2 is ideal and when it becomes 3 , its becomes a crowd, either one is left hurt,rejected and neglected....It gets complicated..Love turns to hatred and hurt, more that hatred the feeling of being betrayed for a "better one" injures the victim and leaves a scar with a million questions that most of the time go unanswered..
The stories in the book made me realize how ruthless the world is..How people play with emotions and get away with it...If there is one thing that to I cannot stand is cheating on someone who loves you, cheating someone when you are in a relationship with someone else, am not saying you cannot fall out of love just like you fell into it, am not saying that you can never fall in love with someone else when you are in a relationship, but why cheat? why not just break up and then move on to the next one..A broken heart is not easy to mend and this is a universal fact.no matter how strong or frivolous your relationship is..betrayal brings about anger and hurt and it feels like C***... When people say that things like this makes you stronger they are lying..it does'nt make you stronger , it does not give you the fell lesser pain the next time..it makes you more guarded...You tend to draw a border around you and stop trusting people ..and sometimes become unapproachable and none of these make you a better person..It just makes you critical and judgmental ..or loose faith in love,friendship and start assuming that true emotions exist only in movies and fairy tales...I sometime think that "Happily Ever After" is a myth....
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